Matchmaking  ·  Amsterdam

You have been dealt
the Queen of Hearts.

I make sure you don't need a partner,
and then you find one anyway.

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Holding a Queen of Hearts voucher?
Write to me and we will plan your conversation!

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The idea

The first match is with yourself.

It starts with you. I help you find your way back to yourself, and from there, love finds its way to you.

Our first conversation already brings back so much of who you are. Then the healing begins. With coaching and healings we explore what stands in your way, and we put your life in order, so there is room for (new) love.

  • In a long relationship?
  • Lost yourself a little?
  • Find yourself again.
  • Find your own taste again.
  • Do fun things!

You make time for the fun things again. Old hobbies, a talk, a ceremony, a yoga class, places where you meet kindred spirits. Sometimes I send you somewhere because someone will be there who I believe is your match. Who that is stays a surprise. You simply go, and the adventure begins…

This is also for you if you have been in a long relationship and lost yourself a little along the way. By being honest with yourself and going out into the world, you find yourself again.

How it works

Four movements, in a set order.

You start by getting to know yourself again, finding yourself again, liking yourself again. Then you clear what blocks you and enrich yourself with new inspiration. If you are already in a good relationship, or you are not looking, our journey ends after the clearing. Otherwise we go on: we make room in your life for love, we order it, and we find it.

I

The conversation

An in-depth interview with you, a hundred and eleven questions, to really get to know you. You get my honest read on where you stand in love. If you want to go on, we turn that into a plan of action, made to measure for you.

II

The clearing

Together we look at what holds you back and where your blocks are. With healing or coaching sessions, exercise and nutrition, and personal activities that heal and inspire, we tidy up step by step: in your head, in your heart and in your body. Until you feel good in your skin again and have found yourself again.

III

The picture

We continue with the clearing. Alongside it, I call three people you choose: friends, family or exes, to learn even more about you and your blind spots. And I visit your home. Is there room for a partner? Then we order a partner: what do you want, and does that fit who you are?

IV

The meeting

You are invited to activities where your match is too. Who that is, you find out yourselves: no photo, no age, no name. The last magical steps are yours. And you get to write an old-fashioned personal ad, which I place in my newsletter.

Gatherings

You will know that they are there.
You will not know who.

No name tags, no photos, no ages, no introductions. Just something worth doing on its own, with one person there who was invited because of you. The last few steps stay yours, and that is where the magic lives.

Two pairs of legs propped over cinema seats
A painting course
A family constellation
A silent walk
A guided nature walk
A talk
A sound bath
A yoga or sports class
A concert, an art fair
A desert journey

Who this is for

People who are done searching, waiting or swiping.

You want to put your life in order, clear your blocks and heal, so that you start to like yourself again, make room, and open up to love.

Or you have been in a long relationship and lost a little of yourself and your own taste. What was it I enjoyed again? After years of compromise, your own wishes and preferences can quietly fall away.

For anyone who wants to reconnect with themselves and find themselves again. To find your own source, so you fall in love with yourself and match with yourself again.

Discretion

Nobody has to know you are here.

No profilesNothing about you is published. You are not put in a box or on a list, and nobody can browse through you.
No photographsNo photos of you appear on the site. No ages are mentioned and no information about you is shared.
No namesNo names are shared. As much as possible stays secret for as long as possible, until you actually meet someone.
Liesbeth, hands together, smiling

About

I have been doing this my whole life.

I have introduced people to each other for as long as I can remember. I can feel when two people will like each other, and I can see it the moment they like each other more than that.

People, what they do and why, and love have always fascinated me. I started out studying psychology and after a few years dove into acting, where I could also lose myself in roles and people. Then I trained at the School of Life, where among other things I learned to coach and give healings.

I wrote two books: Overprikkeld, about high sensitivity, and Uit je dip gaan!, about everything you can do yourself to feel as good as possible. Both have a chapter on relationships, because staying authentic in a (long) relationship can be hard. After some of my own long relationships I had lost myself a little too. Years of small and big compromises, adapting without noticing, make that happen easily.

With Queen of Hearts I want people to begin a relationship whole, or to become whole while they are in one. By doing what you love again: hobbies you had forgotten, interests waiting to be dusted off. Go out to exactly the things that suit you, and you will meet kindred spirits along the way. And sometimes I organise something with certain matches in mind. It stays a surprise, so the last exciting steps are yours to take.

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Rates

You pay for the preparation, not for a promise.

Everything starts with the (first) conversation. If you want to go on, each step builds on the one before.

The Conversation

I

  • Intake
  • A hundred and eleven questions
  • My honest read on where you are
  • Registration with Queen of Hearts
  • Newsletter with news, dates and facts about love
  • You can sign up for the match activities
  • If you want to go on, we make a plan of action, made to measure

€111

From 11 January €333

The Clearing

I + II

  • Including The Conversation
  • What stands between you and (self-)love?
  • Finding the blocks
  • Healing or coaching sessions
  • Exercise and nutrition
  • Finding yourself again
  • Feeling good in your skin
  • Personal activities that heal and inspire

€1,111

The Picture

I + II + III

  • Including The Conversation and The Clearing
  • We continue with the clearing
  • I call three people you choose: friends, family or exes
  • Your blind spots
  • A home visit: is there room for a partner?

The Meeting

I + II + III + IV

  • Ordering a partner: what do you want, and does that fit who you are?
  • Invitations to activities where your match is too
  • No photo, no age, no name
  • You take the last magical steps yourselves

€3,333

III + IV together: The Picture and The Meeting

Voucher

The Conversation, as a gift

A woman in a chair, listening, hands folded
One conversation does what a thousand profiles cannot.
The Queen of Hearts voucher card

A gift

Give someone else the first conversation.

Sometimes you see in another person what they cannot see in themselves yet. If you want to give them that hour, buy a voucher from me.

It is the first conversation, for €111, and it comes as a card, so you have something real to hand over. The woman on the card is me, more or less. What happens in that conversation stays between them and me.

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Shall we start with a conversation?

Tell me a little about yourself, and together we will find a date, a place and a time for The Conversation.

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